My work and social diaries are now both fully booked up for the rest of this year.
On the work front – I am working with some incredible people (these are the kinds of people I always seem to attract) and we’re getting some absolutely wonderful results 🙂
On the social front – I have some really amazing things planned. Things that I’m super-excited about 🙂
I’ve engineered my life in a way that really works for me.
I don’t say this to brag in any way, merely to show you what’s possible, if you decide to take this journey.
I started my journey to Dream Self Esteem 15 years ago, when I got divorced and trained to be a therapist.
It wasn’t always easy, and it did take me a little while (I had to figure this all out by myself, there was no map for me) but I eventually got there, and I fully intend to live there now for the rest of my life.
Despite having Dream Self Esteem, I’m not immune to bad things happening…not at all, but when they do, I bounce back very quickly.
All the sh** that has happened in my life, I’ve used as compost to help me grow.
I’ve used it to grow my wisdom, my strength and my resilience.
Consequently, I can honestly say, that I really do Love my life.
And I want YOU to really Love your life too.
Right now, I’m feeling loved up, happy and positive about the future, and I really want you to feel the same way.
So I’ve written you a Love letter.
There’s one for my Lovelies, and one for my Lonelies.
You’re so different, but both equally suffer from low self-esteem and a wounded inner child.
I understand you completely.
Mainly due to the fact that I’ve been in your shoes – both as a Lovely and as someone who has coached many, many Lonelies.
And because of that, I know how to help you.
So here goes – A Love Letter to my Lovelies…
My Dearest Lovely,
You are one of the nicest, kindest, most giving people I have ever come across.
That is why I’m so fond of you.
You are one of life’s “good” people.
Your goodness means you deserve the world – the whole entire bakery, but what you generally receive is just the crumbs.
This is nothing like justice dictates you should have.
Sometimes you feel like there is no justice – you’re such a good person, so why does life treat you this way?
You struggle to ever say no.
You struggle to have appropriate (or even any) boundaries.
You’re super-passive and avoid conflict at all costs.
You always feel responsible for how other people feel.
You give and give and give but the people around you just take and take and take…your boss, your partner, your family, your friends…
You crave validation and approval more than anything else, but it never seems to come.
You get taken for granted.
You get taken advantage of.
Everyone else comes before you.
You’re always at the bottom of the heap.
It’s as if you don’t count at all.
You’re not important.
So many people put on you and just expect you to do things for them, but then they never return the favour.
You feel trapped in a cycle of injustice.
You can’t stop giving, or doing, or helping others, but you feel resentful, unhappy, maybe even a bit bitter, that other people don’t see that.
This is made worse because you never admit when your feelings are hurt.
You numb yourself by eating too much or drinking too much or buying things.
Sometimes you may even self-harm or do other destructive behaviours.
You’ll do anything just to lift yourself out of this terrible feeling, but sadly nothing works.
You suffer with depression and/or anxiety or other issues.
You feel unhappy, unfulfilled, overwhelmed and lost.
Your loveliness is like a curse that you just can’t escape from.
Well my Lovely, I’m here to tell you that there IS a way to escape all this.
There IS an opportunity to change it.
I want you to make a stand…right here and right now.
As we reach the end of 2022, I want you to decide, without any shadow of a doubt, that 2023 is going to be different.
It’s going to be your year.
I don’t want you to have ANY regrets in your life.
You’ve had enough of the old way of being; you’re now ready for MASSIVE change.
Let’s flip that injustice on its head.
You DESERVE to be HAPPY.
I want you to take back your power.
It’s there inside you, it’s just been sleeping.
Let me help you.
Let me champion you.
My Dream Self Esteem Deep Dive 1:1 Coaching Programme is the answer you’ve been looking for.
I love you very much and I’m here for you.
Christina xx
And a Love letter to my Lonelies…
My dearest Lonely,
You are one of the nicest, hardest-working, most misunderstood people I’ve ever come across.
That’s why I’m so fond of you.
Many people see your financial success and outward confidence and believe that you have it all.
But that’s not how you feel at all.
You have realised that the really important things in life – love, peace, happiness, trust, and true friendship cannot be bought.
Despite your success, you feel so lonely.
You feel misunderstood.
You have your walls up, so you don’t get hurt.
All you really crave is genuine love and deep connection, but it always eludes you.
You struggle to trust people.
You were badly treated in your early life and it has influenced all of your decisions since.
You have an insane drive, drive, drive to succeed, but this only leaves you feeling empty.
You work so hard.
Work is your comfort zone, it’s where you feel safe – it makes you money, but it doesn’t make you happy.
It doesn’t give you a cuddle at night.
It doesn’t reassure you that you are lovable and wanted.
It doesn’t give you the validation that you need, that you’re a good, worthwhile person.
It doesn’t give you inner peace.
You feel trapped in a cycle of pain and loneliness.
Hurtful things have happened in your childhood or early years that you are still running away from.
This is made worse because you never admit these feelings to anyone.
You numb yourself by drinking too much or taking drugs or buying even more expensive toys.
You do hobbies compulsively and competitively.
Always feeling you need to be the best at something to be worthwhile.
You’ll do anything just to lift yourself out of this terrible feeling, but nothing works.
You suffer with depression and/or addictions.
You feel unhappy, unfulfilled, lonely and lost.
Your loneliness is like a curse that you just can’t escape.
Well my Lonelies, I’m here to tell you that there IS a way to escape.
There IS an opportunity to change all of this.
I want you to make a stand…right here, right now.
As we reach the end of 2022, I want you to decide, without any shadow of a doubt that 2023 is going to be different.
It’s going to be your year.
I don’t want you to have any regrets in your life.
You’ve had enough of the old way of being; you’re ready for MASSIVE change.
Let’s flip that loneliness on its head.
You DESERVE to be HAPPY.
I want you to take back your lovability.
It’s there inside you, it’s just been sleeping.
Let me help you.
Let me support you.
My Dream Self Esteem Deep Dive 1:1 Coaching Programme is the answer you’ve been looking for.
I love you very much and I’m here for you.
Christina xx
I want to take hold of your hand and lead you out of the darkness and into the light.
2023 needs to be your year.
The year that you finally make that change.
Your happiness is waiting for you…don’t waste another moment…book that call now.
“Come to the edge,” she said.
“We can’t, we’re afraid,” they said.
“Come to the edge,” she said.
“We can’t, we will fall,” they said.
“Come to the edge,” she said.
And they came.
And she pushed them.
And they flew…
(Guillame Apollinaire)
Much Love
Christina xx