What is your low self-esteem costing you?
You can have good physical health, good financial health and good career health, but if you haven’t got good emotional health you’ll never be truly happy or fulfilled. And if you don’t tackle this now, it’s only going to get worse. Every single organism in nature (including humans) is seeking more life. This more life principle is buried deep inside our subconscious minds, so any dysfunction in our life will grow too. That means, if not released, your low self-esteem, lack of confidence, addictions and depression will only get worse as time goes on. You’re on the path to deep unhappiness.
So how does this all begin?
Most children up to the age of about 3 or 4 know they are absolutely worthwhile and wonderful.
We are all born with perfect self-esteem, but then as we age, we start to be influenced by our surroundings.
Inadequate parenting,
Negative teachers,
Overly strict religious or club leaders,
Bullying classmates or older siblings,
TV and media
And it all starts to erode our self-esteem. It all starts to chip away at our tender young confidence. Our minds are not fully formed so we don’t question these influences, we just soak them up like the little sponges that we are and then we begin to take on a story based on those influences.
Emotional conditioning runs deep. These old influences/memories start to drive our behaviour and this can continue for decades if we don’t de-condition and reframe them. It’s like viewing yourself through an old damaged distorted lens.
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“Why do I have low self-esteem and what can I do about it?”
You were just an innocent child. You didn’t know any different. And you’re not alone. It’s estimated that up to 85% of the population has low self-esteem. You are carrying burdens – shame, guilt, sorrow, abandonment issues that are often not yours to carry.
The good news is, with the right help, you can let go of all of this, you can allow new thoughts and feelings to surface and influence your behaviour in a positive way.
Your low self-esteem is not your fault. It’s just bad conditioning
“The prerequisite to true freedom is to decide that you don’t want to suffer anymore, you must decide that you want to enjoy your life and there is no reason for stress, inner pain or fear. Every day we bear the burden we should not be bearing. We fear that we’re not good enough or that we’ll fail. We experience insecurity, anxiety and self-consciousness”
Michael A Singer
“The Untethered Soul”
It’s time to break free. What you continue to allow will continue to hurt you and rob you of your self-esteem
Self-love or putting yourself first is not selfish, it’s normal
If you’re sick of feeling empty, hollow, unhappy and not good enough then it’s time to change.
If you want to be able to accept every part of you – the good, the bad and the ugly (and yes, we do ALL have some ugly bits) then take a look at my suite of products.