How does a baby know how to grow into a child and then a teenager and then an adult?
How does an acorn know how to grow into an oak tree?
How does a seed know how to grow into a flower or plant?
It’s something called entelechy – entelly what?
Entelechy is the realisation of potential. It’s the blueprint that is present in every single organism.
Every caterpillar has inside it the blueprint to be a butterfly.
Every tadpole – a frog.
And every baby – a fully-realised, fully-fledged adult human.
You are born with a blueprint for 100% growth, health and wellness. It’s only when we mess with that blueprint that things start to go awry.
Another way to think of entelechy is more life. Every single organism is seeking more life. It wants to fulfil its maximum potential. We ALL want to grow towards the light.
This principle is inherent in us. It’s buried deep in our subconscious minds. We can’t stop it.
Nothing ever stays the same. The world keeps turning, the seasons keep changing, the phases of the moon are constantly transitioning.
This means that if you find yourself with a dysfunction or on the wrong path. Say for example, you have some kind of issue – an addiction, anger issues, depression, low self esteem, you’re anxious or insecure – your more life principle will make your issue grow. It will make it worse as time passes, if you don’t do anything about it.
You will keep going further and further down the wrong path. You’ll get more of what you DON’T want.
When you’re on the wrong path your entelechy is causing you to decline not to grow.
If you’re on the addiction/angry/depressed/low self-esteem/anxious path, it’s time to get off it, or your issue is only going to get worse.
I always say it’s like being on a runaway horse. Most runaway horses don’t go anywhere you want to go so you have to jump off as quickly as you can. Jump off that addiction horse, depression horse etc etc as soon as you realise you’re on it.
Most of these issues are caused by unhealed core wounds and most people today are walking wounded. They push down, ignore, disregard and distract themselves from their wounds in the hope that they’ll go away or resolve themselves. They never do. Sweep anything under the carpet and it stays under the carpet. Sweep enough and the mound that’s underneath will keep tripping you up or even trapping you so you can’t move.
This is the reason every one of my products starts with healing and/or understanding your wounds. You can’t build a strong, stable house on unstable foundations.
Unhealed wounds nearly always lead to low self esteem and low self esteem CAN lead to all of these issues.
Addiction – I feel empty, incomplete, disconnected from myself. I need to fill that inner hole with something.
Anger towards others – it’s not fair, I’ve suffered an injustice. If I’m defensive and angry you won’t have chance to hurt me anymore.
Depression – anger towards self – this feeling is overwhelming and exhausting. I’m flat, heavy and can’t be bothered.
Anxiety – I don’t feel enough, I have to control everything as I don’t feel safe.
Closing down emotionally – If I numb myself and don’t open up you can’t hurt me. The walls I put up stop the bad stuff getting in, but they stop the good stuff getting in too, so I’m never happy.
In order to heal, and then grow and fulfil your potential you must be on a growth pathway.
Once you’re on a growth pathway your entelechy will help you to constantly improve. To grow towards the light.
Most of us know we deserve more than we currently have in life. More health, more fun, more enjoyment, more happiness, more Love, more success. Most of us think there must be more to life than this.
Many of us are going to live till we’re 100+. We won’t retire until we’re in our 80s. We will have multiple careers, multiple relationships and multiple set-backs in life – the death of a loved one, a disease, redundancy etc. If we’re not careful these could easily put us on the wrong path if our self-esteem is low. When self-esteem is high, life is easier. We bounce back quickly from set-backs.
My coaching can help you navigate life successfully. It can take you off the wrong path and put you on the right one. The path where you can live happily and healthily, growing into your fullest potential.
And the good thing about potential is it grows and expands as you do, so there really are no limits.
My products offer the space to do deep healing, learning and growth.
They offer you a safe, growth-orientated space, a chrysalis, if you like, because you MUST be in this kind of space to unlock your best stuff.
Great self-esteem connects you with your potential like nothing else.
Most people know that they are meant for more, they know what they want, they just have no idea how to be it, do it or get it.
Well let me help you. Let me guide you off the wrong path and onto the right one.
Once you’re on your growth path, you just need to keep taking baby steps. Eventually those baby steps become great strides and life will get better and better.
Much Love
Christina xx